One of the ongoing challenges for many workers is that of setting priorities. Question is, do we get them right?

Projects, and indeed employers, come and go… In the meantime the ‘constants’ in our life may slip in terms of the priority list.

Ask yourself: “Have any of my valued relationships suffered because of my work?”

Perhaps your current project/job/work has (and is) taking more precedence over more valuable commitments. It happens. But the real question is, what will you/I do about it?

As a husband and father with two young children, I know that my primary responsibility, before any project or charitable work is to ensure that my family are cared for physically/emotionally/spiritually/materially.

I often remind myself that there are plenty of clients needing creatives out there, but for my children, back at home, there is only one Daddy, me.

So here are “TEN WAYS TO BE A BETTER DAD” from the National Fatherhood Initiative*:

1. Respect Your Children’s Mother

One of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother. If you are married, keep your marriage strong and vital. If you are not married, it is still important to respect and support the mother of your children. A father and mother who respect each other and let their children know it provide a secure environment for them. When children see their parents respecting each other, they are more likely to feel that they are also accepted and respected.

2. Spend Time with Your Children

How a father spends his time tells his children what is important to him. If you always seem too busy for your children, they will feel neglected no matter what you say. Treasuring children often means sacrificing other things, but it is essential to spend time with your children. Kids grow up so quickly. Missed opportunities are lost forever.

3. Earn the Right to Be Heard

All too often, the only time a father speaks to his children is when they have done something wrong. That is why so many children cringe when their mother says, “Your father wants to talk with you.” Begin talking with your kids when they are very young so that difficult subjects will be easier to handle as they get older. Take time and listen to their ideas and problems.

4. Discipline with Love

All children need guidance and discipline, not as punishment, but to set reasonable limits. Remind your children of the consequences of their actions and provide meaningful rewards for desirable behaviour. Fathers who discipline in a calm and fair manner show love for their children.

5. Be a Role Model

Fathers are role models to their kids whether they realise it or not. A girl who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys, and what to look for in a husband. Fathers can teach sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility, and responsibility.

6. Be a Teacher

Too many fathers think teaching is something others do, but a father who teaches his children about right and wrong, and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good choices. Involved fathers use everyday examples to help their children learn the basic lessons of life.

7. Eat Together as a Family

Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch, or dinner) can be an important part of healthy family life. In addition to providing some structure in a busy day, it gives kids the chance to talk about what they are doing and want to do. It is also a good time for fathers to listen and give advice. Most importantly, it is a time for families to be together each day.

8. Read to Your Children

In a world where television [and devices] often dominates the lives of children, it is important that fathers make the effort to read to their children. Children learn best by doing and reading, as well as seeing and hearing. Begin reading to your children when they are very young. When they are older, encourage them to read on their own. Instilling your children with a love for reading is one of the best ways to ensure they will have a lifetime of personal and career growth.

9. Show Affection

Children need the security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted, and loved by their family. Parents, especially fathers, need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children. Showing affection everyday is the best way to let your children know that you love them.

10. Realize That a Father’s Job Is Never Done

Even after children are grown and ready to leave home, they still look to their fathers for wisdom and advice. Whether it is continued schooling, a new job, or a wedding, fathers continue to play an essential part in the lives of their children as they grow and, perhaps, marry and build their own families.


*National Fatherhood Initiative. (n.d.). 10 ways to be a better dad  

Sapphires Nursery School – preview

Here is a sneak peek of our lovely client’s new website…

We’ve worked alongside the fantastic Alice Peto who has produced some beautiful illustrations for inclusion in the website. More previews to follow!



Forest of Imagination – starting a fire…

My thoughts on the recent Forest of Imagination event in Queen Square Bath, which drew nearly 7,000 visitors:

I feel that Forest of Imagination holds an opportunity for deep community engagement, not just during the event but in the planning, design and lead up to it. 

The way that staff from Herman Miller, Grant Associates, FCB as well as many individual volunteers have all responded to the openness and collaborative nature of FOI is a resounding testimony to collaboration across (creative) industries and cultures. We (Forest team) will all have enjoyed the Forest experience and our involvement in it, from different angles and for different reasons. Our collective motivations will be diverse yet, I believe, with strong overlaps. 

We have experienced and demonstrated how creativity, collaboration and freedom to play and imagine have brought us into a place of refreshment for the soul, mind and our inherently creative and curious bodies.

Most of us are already busy with so many responsibilities, projects and commitments and although for those involved in “delivering” the event FOI added to that list, it seemed also to somehow offer a sense of calm. Forest of Imagination offers a strong, memorable and edifying creative experience, but I think it also offers a contemplative place away from the madding crowd, although within it. We talk about the transformative power of creativity, and its connection to wellbeing… Now we must show, prove that this is the case. Perhaps we can record and share how FOI affected us positively in this way. How we see things, people, our city, perhaps even the world a little or a lot differently.

My wife Andrea suggests including a large scale interactive piece of public art, inspired by this giant paper eco troll.  

I think the way that we fundraise for the next event should be primarily focused on the local community (with as much lead time as possible), whether that be Bath, Bristol, Chippenham, Sydney and beyond… We need to be really good at sharing “what’s in it” for the community as well as local businesses. This way we can offer an even earlier sense of ownership and belonging to as wide an audience as possible. The kind of belonging that visitors and participants in Forest so evidently felt.

Finally (for now), I noticed something really special in the Forest. People smiling. Really smiling. Tim captured so much of the joy and awe on people’s faces in his beautiful films. Although mobile phones were being used, they were being used to capture, record and share. Walk around most global cities today and you’ll notice two things when you watch people: Rarity of smiles and an addiction to mobile phone screens. Forest of Imagination offers an opportunity for the muscles in our face to be brought back to life as a result of something we feel deep down inside, and gives us a reason to look up and marvel at the world around us, through different eyes. Perhaps the eyes of a child that we once used to see through. Perhaps the view we adopt when we walk through a portal into a fantastical world where the flame of imagination is fanned into a Forest fire… (but a good one).


Forest of Imagination

Do you believe that creativity enhances wellbeing and transforms lives? Please support this amazing event happening in Bath next month by visiting our Kickstarter campaign.

“Imagine 7 different people at different sides & points on a mountain - all aiming for the summit. Progress brings them closer to their goal and closer to each other.”

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A window cleaner’s windows…

Apparently, they say, a window cleaner’s windows are never clean! Well, it feels like that here… We’ve been so busy making sure our clients’ work is done that we’ve neglected our own “window to the world.”

Well finally, here is our updated and refreshed website. We hope you like it. There’s still bundles to upload so please do keep an eye here or via our Twitter feed for news and current projects.

Laters innovators.

Lion art

You may well have passed our office and seen the very sharp looking Dave, a striking life-size sculpture adorned with unsharpened surgical blades to decorate his mane. Continue Reading